Please excuse my double standard

There is only one thing worse than an insecure girl, and that's an insecure guy that acts like an insecure teenage girl.

You know ladies, the kind of guys that I'm talking about here. The ones that are ten times more jealous than the insecure teenage girl that checks her boyfriends phone anytime he leaves her in the room with it. The ones where they feel the need to "claim their territory" and won't stop touching you in public. BECAUSE YOUR HIS GIRL AND HE WANTS THE ENTIRE WORLD TO KNOW IT.

I've dated my fair share of guys like this and I know many other girls that do/have as well. Luckily for me I got out of the relationship quick enough for it to affect how I think about guys in general. As for my friends, many of them weren't as lucky even after many of us girls warned her about THOSE kinds of guys.

Here are some signs if you are with a guy that is secretly an insecure teenage girl:

1. He constantly has to be touching you in public, even after you told him it makes you feel uncomfortable. It could be his arm around you, he keeps kissing you on the cheek, won't let go of your hand, has to be anywhere and everywhere you are... you literally had to tell him to stay out of the women's bathroom.

2. He won't let you hang around any guy besides him, ESPECIALLY if you're alone with a guy.

3. He only uses "big words" in public/around your family/around your friends (which leads me to the next one...)

4. The only friends he really has is YOUR friends. You know the friends that after you and him break up they wouldn't be his friends anymore.

5. He doesn't ever do anything on the weekend. Always at home wanting to hang out with you and angry when you go and hang out with your girlfriends because he's scared that some guy is going to hit on you (which will most likely happen) and you're going to flirt with him (which will most likely happen too).

6.  He won't stop calling or texting you. He constantly has to know where you're at and what you're doing.

7. All your girlfriends are telling you to break up with the guy, that could possibly be a sign. There has to be SOME reason that your friends/family/people in your life are telling you that he's not good for you and you need to stick up for yourself and get rid of him.

8. He calls you crazy. NO GUY SHOULD EVER CALL YOU CRAZY.  If you geniunely are crazy then you probably wouldn't be reading this right now. If he calls you crazy then that's because he feels threatened about something that is going on. He needs to grow up and get a clue.

9. He constantly talks about his ex girlfriends to try to get you to feel bad/do something. Boy, don't even go there.

10. He's under the age of 22. Yeah that could possibly be a clue because guys don't normally get to the point in their lives where they are ready to settle down until about that point in time.

Do yourself and everyone in your life that are going to be hearing your complaining and get rid of him... FAST. He's not good for you, he's not healthy for you. Just stay away...

Now, I am by no means saying that ALL guys are like that, I'm just saying these could be signs that they are like this. Not all guys under 22 are insecure teenage girls, there are exceptions.

Girls can be awful and mean and well awful too. So don't even think about getting on the defensive. lol. I'm really not in a bad mood or anything. I was just listening to someone complain about insecure guys and I decided that would be something I sure can rant about for a bit. So enjoy.