"You reap what you sow"

The biblical teaching of you reap what you sow is not just biblical it is a life truth. What you make your priorities in life is what you are going to get back to you. If you are constantly too busy to help anyone, then others are going to be constantly too busy to help you.

I can't be more thankful for the people and opportunities I have in my life now because of what I've made my priorities to be.

I heard from a church leader and someone I look up to that people tend to place their priorities in life

To be shallow or not to be shallow... Is that really the question?

I love it when I talk to other girls about the kind of guys that they want in their lives. It's almost like they have no expectations of who they want to be with for the rest of their lives. I always hear the answer, " I don't care what they look like, I'll take whatever God gives me."

Well that's awesome and all that you are willing to follow God's will. I firmly believe that God put in you what you desire in a guy for a reason. So, those are the qualities and expectations you look for in a guy. YES I'M INCLUDING LOOKS INTO THIS. There is a certain special and spirtual desire in your heart for what you want your significant other to be like. There is this expectation that you have for them.

Why settle for less? If I want a super cute guy that is super tall and has a lot of muscles, and he is funny and caring, he has a heart of gold. Loves to travel... LOVES kids. Has a heart for God and wants to grow in his faith, then that is what I expect and want in my life. I won't and refuse to settle for any less than that.

Is that a bad thing to EXPECT those things from man in my life?

Is it bad for YOU to expect those things from a significant other in your life?

No, it's not a bad thing at all, and if anyone calls that shallow, then I'll take being shallow any day before giving my heart out to every guy I see around town. I rather my heart not be shredded into a million pieces and not have a heart to give.

I love myself. I love who I am. I love who God created me to be. I love each and every desire that God has put in my heart and spirit. I love the guy that God has made for me. I don't know who he is yet, but I know he is out there... and I know he loves me too. I pray for him. I wish the best for him and that he is living his life for God and that God is preparing our lives to someday be together. Until then I will be patient and just prepare my life for whatever is to come in it.